The BEST book in 2019-The bible of non-verbal communication!
Books launched in a year rarely are read after all their marketing strategy is finished if the book itself is not at least mediocre.
This book is so great that it still is a bestseller here where I currently live!
What it is about?
It is a scientific fact that people’s gestures give away their true intentions. Yet most of us don’t know how to read body language–and don’t realize how our own physical movements speak to others. Now the world’s foremost experts on the subject share their techniques for reading body language signals to achieve success in every area of life.
• How palms and handshakes are used to gain control
• The most common gestures of liars
• How the legs reveal what the mind wants to do
• The most common male and female courtship gestures and signals
• The secret signals of cigarettes, glasses, and makeup
• The magic of smiles–including smiling advice for women
• How to use nonverbal cues and signals to communicate more effectively and get the reactions you want
Filled with fascinating insights, humorous observations, and simple strategies that you can apply to any situation, this intriguing book will enrich your communication with and understanding of others–as well as yourself.
If it sounds like something what you would like to find out more of, keep on reading:
Allan Pease and his wife Barbara are experts at body language control, and they have traveled all over the world talking about THE INTERNATIONAL NON-VERBAL
Allan Pease has offered a lot of interesting insights into the non verbal communication between people into this book, but the book is well-written and well-illustrated as well, and this makes the the book even better.
This book made me feel like I could reach new heights in my social abilities ,and feel like I have super powers!
This book involves a lot of small details that could potentially grow your social abilities, (I will just talk about a few that pop into my head right now ,but there are a lot that I do not remember right now)
THE moment when I truly felt that this book changed my life was when I started to realized that some people are not EXTREMELY interested in what I was talking about.This might not sound like a lot, yet I can assure you that this was simple the start ,and the learning curve was entirely different when I re-read it so that to really integrate into my life all the small things that I have to do to change my life.
After this, I started to be conscious of the feet position and the baseline of the people ,so that I know when I am being lied to.
What?Can you actually do that?
You probably do not believe a random person on the internet ,but this is the purpose of this website,to make human knowledge accessible to all the people who want to.
Now,getting back to the book, the BASELINE BEHAVIOR that I mentioned there is the NUMBER ONE THING that people get wrong about this type of book and what it is usually called by BASELINE behavior.
BASELINE behavior =This means that you firstly need to make a first impression of the behavior of the person that you judge ,and only after you have to search for differences .
Only after that you need another thing to remember and that it is called for -A CLUSTER OF CLUES.That means that you take a number of clues ,from feet position ,arms,eye contact and intensity,verbal tonality and other things and ONLY AFTER THAT you can think about the veracity of your claims, because only one will certainly make you judge badly.
For example, crossed arms MIGHT mean that that person is not very interested, or that person simply MIGHT BE COLD! 😀
Taking that in ,you will find a LOT,and truly mean A LOT of information in this book ,and will be TRULY GRATEFUL when you will be a social champion ,what I wish that you will be
I used Amazon to get this book because Amazon delivers to (I guess ) ANYWHERE in this world , so find out what others are thinking about it by following this LINK (TO AMAZON.com) !
The only thing bad about this book is that you will become self-conscious ,but that will only help you in your social improvement journey .